Or: Everything Escalates
Or: Why I cut my hair super short one chilly January
*Note: graphic pics of basal cancer surgery at the end.
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Heads love hats, keep it (healthy skin) under your hatāI could go on, but Iāll spare you.
This story has its roots in multiple sunburns as a red-headed, freckle-faced, fair-skinned kid. In those days, SPF stood for sunshine-playing-fun. Sunscreens and blocks were unheard of and crazy friends used to spread vegetable shortening on their bodies to get a deep July tan. I skipped that recipe, but still didnāt get off easy.
My siblings and I spent our summers alternating between playing and fighting with cousins and the same-as-family neighborhood kids. Our mothers would say: āGo outside play,ā and they meant it. Theyād pack us brown bag lunches and off weād traipse into the woods and be gone all day. Mothers didnāt worry about where we were or that someone could make off with us. We were safe playing in our Pennsylvania woods on a dead-end black top where Griffiths have lived almost since they landed in America from Wales in the 1700s.
Basal cancer wasn’t a term or condition any of ever heard of as kids.
Childhood Summer Days!
We kids filled those hot days frolicking and playing games in the glaring sun. Most of my life we had a pool of some size, my first bubbling burn was in a two foot tall pool in the front yard. Eventually, we had a four-foot deep pool. This does not explain why I canāt do much beyond doggy paddling and the breast stroke.
Time and again my skin turned as red as my hair. I recall many vinegar bathsāa sure fire way to take the sting out of a nasty sunburn. These severe childhood scorchings can be directly linked to the incidence of basal cancer in adults. Oh joy. It explains Dadās multiple surgeries to remove the nasty stuff. One left him with bi-plane-smashed-into-the-side-of-a-barn (think Secondhand Lions) stitches smack-dab in the middle of his forehead. He threatened to draw a propeller on it.
Skipping the Hat = Basal Cancer = Having Mohs Surgery
My first Mohs (named in 1930 for founding surgeon Frederic Mohs) surgery was in 2005. It left a nickel sized, shallow hole at the hairline above my left eyebrow. Doctor Sharon Hrabrovsky did a great job leaving me with a thin, barely there scar. She was able to pull the skin together so that big hole ended up being nothing much. The second surgery in 2014 was a different story. Dr. Hrabrovsky had to cut deeper and wider and the spot is an inch in from my forehead in my scalp. Ouch.
Mohs surgery is not fun. Itās helpful that the doc and her team are nice because the actual snipping process and waiting is not pleasant. In Mohs surgery, the doctor takes as small a piece of skin as possible. It goes straight to biopsy. If the cancer has been contained, youāre done. If not, she goes back and cuts moreāthat could be deeper, it could be wider, or in my case, it was both.
There wasnāt as much skin available to draw together. This holeāgraphic pictures at the endāwound up a tad bigger than a dime, as deep as that darned nickel. To me, it looked about the size of the Grand Canyon! Three plus years in, itās barely noticeable.
Post-surgery treatment is slathering on Vaseline, covering it with a non-stick bandage, and pressing as hard as you can tolerate to even out the edges of the wound. Have you tried getting Vaseline out of your hair? After using dish detergent, liquid hand soap, baby shampoo, and the great soap Seester makes, I turned to Google. Olive oil was the first thing that popped up. Turns out it is also okay for wounds, so olive oil it was and it worked well.
Hats and Hair
You know those estimates of hair growing half an inch a month? I think redheads have some acceleration gene when it comes to hair growth. I used to touch up roots every three weeks.
That white-roots experience led me to reconsider hair dying that I never intended doing in the first place. My siblingsādark brown and coal black hairāgrayed long before I started to see the errant strand. The sisters succumbed to coloring, the brother did notāhow many men bother? I gloated. Yes, I am a brat. After hating being a redhead as a child, I embraced it in my twenties. By my thirties I was madly in love with the color. Now, one and a half years into going natural, Iām still sad to not be red. My fun stylist cut, snipped, buzzed and cut some more until the style was short and easy to care for, easy to make crazy or to keep calm. It was a kick to see it grow in and become red, strawberry blond, brunette, silver, gray and white.
That was a Bit of a Tangent
We ginger-haired folks frequently take you on a little trip before we get you where weāre going, which is here:
Parents, when I see you out and about with your little kidās head exposed to the sunās rays, Iāll beg you to get a hat on that child! Donāt be surprised if I brush back my hair and show you what can happen if you donāt.
Gotta goāyard work is calling. N o great outdoors until I slap on that wide-brimmed, purple OR sombrero from REI (with SPF built in). I purchased it after my pink one went flying off into the Portofino woods on a hike last springā¦
Basal Cancer
Experiencing Mohs surgery is not fun. Do what you can to prevent basal cancer so you donāt ever require this surgery.
Graphic pics of Mohs below:
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I love your new, natural hair color – it really looks good on you. And yes, wear a hat. A good reminder for fair skinned me as we go into summer months.
Thank you, sweet Erica! Oh that California sunshine and your fair skin–perfect combination for rocking all sorts of super cool hats! (PS. I miss your blogs.)
Ouch! Thanks for sharing š I always wear a hat to protect my head and face from the sun. I learned the importance of hats soon after moving to Florida. The sun down here is intense!
You are as fair complexioned as I am, so I’m super glad to hear you keep a hat on that cute head of yours! I’ve been happy to sport my purple one around here because it means Pittsburgh actually has sunshine! Ouch–oh yeah, ouch!
I have been wearing Dad’ s hat…..Yeah you know the one!! LOL
Oh yes, I know the one! I have a duplicate on downstairs.
Okay. You got to me. Iāll try to wear a hat more often. Iāve got about 50 baseball caps in the closet.
don’t forget about the back of your neck!
Absolutely, Kris! Ears, too!
Yes, please, Ken! Mohs is no fun and hey–show off those awesome caps!
I had a dime sized squamous cancer removed from the back of my hand using Mohs surgery. The hole was about the size of a silver dollar. I watched the procedure and wondered how big the scar would be. Not that it mattered but there is no scar at all.
I thought about you, my fellow redhead, as I was re-sharing this post. Wow–no scar! That’s amazing! The one above my left eye is really faint, the one on my scalp… well, I hide it well. Hoping tomorrow does not mean more Mohs. PS. A silver dollar is HUGE!
Wore my hat that you purchased for me yesterday while working out in the bright Montana sun! Thank you for the reminder to do so!
Yeah! I love that hat on you! I will be donning my yard-work one as I head (no pun) out this afternoon to do yard work. Then Tuesday I get to find out if I yet again need Mohs surgery. Say it ain’t so!
I’m passing your excellent blog onto a family member who is having some skin cancer removed. Hats are good!!
Thanks for sharing it, Nadine. I would love it shared everywhere! Especially parents with little kids who let them play outside hatless. Just slapping the hat on is such a great preventative measure. Good luck to your family member!
I just had BCC removed off of the top of my scalp about 3 weeks ago. It was left to heal by secondary intention, meaning no sutures. Just like an open wound. I am concerned about the hair growing back. Did your hair grow back or did it leave a bald spot? And if the hair did grow back how long did that take?
Hi Chrisite! Thanks for reading–I try to send this article around every so often to remind everyone how important sunscreen and hats with SPF can be. Where I had the first one removed there is barely a scar and that was HUGE. That was the one on my forehead near my hairline. There was enough skin to suture the cuts together. Sounds gross, but you know what I mean. For whatever reason, the surgeon (same one) said I didn’t have enough skin to pull together, hence the hole. I had that surgery done in December of 2014. The spot has continually shrunk. It is probably half the size it started out as and the hair has grown in around it. I did everything the doctor told me to, so hopefully they got you all set and yours will heal even better! PS. Unless I tell someone it’s there, no one would ever see the spot.
Thank you so much! That makes me feel much better!
Yeah! Glad to help, Chrisite. Please let me know how it feels in a month or so. And although I lost my pink hat on an Italian hike, I have managed to hang onto my OR purple sombrero with a 5″ brim! Super protection. Thanks again for finding my blog.
Hi Rose. Somehow, I’d missed this post the first time around, but I’m glad I caught it this time. Perhaps a warning about the graphic nature of the photos might be recommended as I was eating my lunch when I scrolled down to see your infected scalp. I’m so glad that is all behind you know, and that the hat is protecting your beautiful face and skin. I, too, am shocked when I see little children (or anyone!) out in the sun without a hat. And I’m completely understanding on having to cut back on new content on your blog. I, too, had to resort to updating and recirculating older posts the past couple of weeks, and finally got some new content up. Nothing wrong with recirculating previously published content as long as we update and freshen it up from time to time. Cheers!
So sorry about the pics, Doreen! I inadvertently erased my warning note–which I just put back! My husband is quite squeamish but stepped up to the plate to help with tending that wound and taking the pics. It’s just not in a location where I could do it myself.
I love when my blogger friends recirculate content because there are often posts I missed. It gives me a chance to catch up. Erica Mesirov just laughed because I found a very early one of hers on vitamins. But hey, she had the information I needed!
Ah, that fair Celtic skin the Griffiths are famous for. We always joked that dad had an entire layer of freckles that blended together and then got new ones on top of that!
Nice hat!
Getting the job done in style!
Summer is quickly approaching so this is a good time for this reminder RoseMary. I’ve been mulling the hair dying thing myself lately. When I first began dying my hair it was to tone it down because when I was younger my hair was that brassy sort of red. Eventually, I found myself dying to “brighten” the color and then this pesky streak of white hair started peaking through between dye jobs. I’ve always hoped that when the time came my hair would gradually fade to that soft shade of reddish blond like my beloved grandmother-in-law had, but that darn streak tells me that just isn’t going to happen.
Glad to post this as a good reminder, Marquita. As for the hair and the (hopefully) end of dying it…I am loving this crazy blend of colors that I have going on. There are strands of strawberry red/blonde around my face, swathes of white, gray, silver and as I said to Doreen, the oddball hunk of black or brunette. Everyone in my family was/is brunette except this redhead, so it is very funny to see it pop out now. But all that said, I love it!
PS. Marquita, a year and a half into the natural hair, my stylist says, Some people have streaks of white in their red hair, you have streaks of red in your white hair! Hope you are glimpsing some great colors.
I have several friends that are constantly at the doctor having skin cancers removed. When I was young (a long time ago, admittedly), common wisdom said that getting a tan was healthy! We mostly didn’t bother with sunscreen. I did get a couple of bad burns but I was lucky because I’ve never liked sitting in the sun so my skin is good condition, lucky for me.
You are the smart one, Jennette! I hope that your friends continue to catch these things before they become eligible for MOHS. The only bonus is how much fun the MOHS Doctor and her staff are to be around. Warped, eh?
I’m still not much for sitting in the sun or sitting still anywhere…but playing in the sun can sure get me in trouble!
Hi Rose – you are a natural story teller. Even about serious subjects like basal cancer you make us chuckle. I know you are MUCH younger than me but I also remember the days when we were told to go outside and play. Hats would have been considered pretentious – if only we knew. Glad you are doing fine now.
Thank you for that compliment, Lenie! I love telling stories and making people smile. I just read a draft to Seester about “Mom and the Gerber spoon.” More on that another time.
Ah, both of childhoods were before sunscreen and skin cancer issues from sunshine. But we’re still here!
I do enjoy reading your stories Rose Mary I can imagine you free as a bird when young. There are many restrictions placed on the children of today for good reason. As a child in the 80’s we disappeared to the park for hours. There were no mobiles and the park was a good 15 minute walk but we were in a group and stick together.
Funny you mention your fair complexion. Just today a colleague spoke to me about her daughter’s fair complexion and red hair and her need for sun tan lotion and a hat – imagine that!
Phoenicia, I’m hoping you shared this post with your friend–we red-haired kids (and grownups) need to stick together. ha ha.
I think it sounds like we had similar childhoods. Mom would pack us lunches–as would our aunts for our cousins–and off to the woods we would be for entire summer days. Calling us back in after supper, after dark, was always a challenge for them.
My husband still has a hard time getting me to come indoors!
I had some bad burns as a kid so I go to the dermatologist every year to get checked. I stay out of the sun now, but they say that the damager from the sun is often done in childhood so not much I can do now. I do take a high quality selenium supplement every day. Selenium has been shown in studies to reduce the chance of skin cancer. Here’s hoping.
I hope you haven’t had any more of these ordeals since this last one.
Erica, that’s exactly what the dermatologist told me about these spots–that it stems from the childhood burns I suffered as a kid. My mom always felt so bad about it in my adult years–but there just weren’t any options in the 1960s. Now, though, I just get angry when I see parents with toddlers and no hats on them.
I take Selenium because of my hypothyroidism–so glad to hear there’s another benefit to it! I did have one basal spot scraped off a few months ago. If it is small and caught soon enough, that gets around the MOHS. Whew.
Just reading this 5/17 but wanted to mention to you about my grandson. Shane will be 11 at the end of the month. He was born a fair skinned blonde. Fortunately sun screen was all the rage, for him to be allergic to! It took many brands and many rash covered days to find 1 type he can use. So his momma buys several at a time. She also kept him under shade at the beach and sleeved at home until she found one he wasn’t allergic to. I think she finally found it when he was around 3 and it isn’t an all natural brand! I would tell you the brand but this old Nonnie doesn’t remember. Ha!
Pauline, I’m impressed that she has been doing this! I see too many parents who don’t. Hope she can find a natural brand. Jackie just got something that is supposedly natural.
Yep, I’m also a freckle faced red head and while I haven’t had many sunburns there were a couple that laid me up for awhile. When I first moved to Hawaii everyone kept teasing me about how white my skin was so I tried in earnest to get seriously tanned … then one day I had breakfast with a client I’d never met before and that changed my life.
The woman was very sweet, but you could tell she was used to the shock when people first saw her. She’d had multiple surgeries for skin cancer on her face and much of the muscle was gone on the right side. From that point on I swore off tanning and became religious about wearing the highest level sunblock I could find. I’m so glad you are okay and were able to find a good doctor to help you!
Yikes, Marquita! I have such compassion for that woman–my holes so far are nothing compared to that. Ah, Hawaii…I have a good friend on Oahu and she’s fair also. I’m glad that you and she are both content with that milky complexion and have given up trying to be tan. We just aren’t cut out for that look!
Rose, I’m sorry you had to go through that surgery but glad that you’re doing better now. Love they way you tell your story letting others know about basal cancer, but doing it with a lighter touch – you kept me reading to the end. Hats it is.
Glad you read through, Lenie. It’s fun to write blogs like this and include laughter. I figure whatever I am going through it could always be worse. Like the time I broke my collar bone, but not really the collar bone, a little bone next to the collar bone and do you see where this is going? My short life as a downhill skier!
I was another pale skinned, burned easy kid who was sent out to play all day with no sunscreen so I understand. Crazy that more of us from the pre SPF generations haven’t gotten cancer. I hope you heal quickly and your pretty red hair grows back fast even if you do have to keep it under cover in the summer.:)
I can see that in your photo, Susan–the lovely fair skin that we like once we’re over 50, but were constantly taught to try to brown when we were in our teens. Between that “Girl from Ipanema” and Twiggy, we didn’t stand a chance, eh? I hope you never have to deal with MOHS as a result of teen frolicking!
When I was a kid people used suntan lotion rather than sunblock, which supposedly made you tan faster. Who knows what was in that. Probably just some vegetable oil that had no impact on anything one way or the other. It did encourage you to shower more.
You’re right about that, Ken. I had friends who would slather themselves with Crisco–yes, Crisco! Good heavens! I was at least smart enough to know that Crisco and freckles did not combine very well. But having a pool, I was in it all the time and thus, the multiple burns. “Shower more,” oh, that’s funny!
Yikes that is not a pretty hole and I am sure it feels rather horrid! I love your sense of humor with all this and your concern for others, using your personal experience to prevent others from going through the same thing. I LOVE your haircut! Don’t change a thing. I pray this is the last of these surgeries and that you may hold on to that gorgeous hair of yours š
š I’ve been warning everyone since July to don a hat! No sense in everyone suffering. Of course with Basal Cancer, you don’t really know how long its been lurking beneath the surface since it is so slow to grow. The hole has gone from feeling like a Grand Canyon crater to more of a slight indentation. Thanks for commenting on the haircut. I truly do love it–it’s so easy and fun. In my mind, though, I still wear the long, flowing tresses of deep auburn from my youth. Of course, I am also 5’10” and weigh in at 120 and don’t have to wear a padded bra to fill out my dresses. HAHA!
Ouch!!! I’ve had a few basal cells myself. I get them whenever I get pregnant. š
Well, dang, that is sure not fair! I hope your treatment options have been fast and not painful since being pregnant is already hard enough (from a non-mom’s point of view!).
Hats are a good idea. I love that you can now get hats with SPF in them. My sister, who burned her nose several times as a child, had MOHS surgery on her nose a few years ago. She wears a hat religiously now.
Darned right, Donna. I love that hats now come with SPF. Unfortunately none of the ones I have been wearing are that kind. It is most definitely at the top of my shopping list. I hope your sister had as good a MOHS doctor as I have. The scar on my forehead is only noticeable if I fly into a redhead rage. Lucky, that doesn’t happen much–laughing is so much more fun!
SPF as a kid…never heard of it. I spent most of my childhood the texture of plastic from all the blistering. So far, nothing has appeared but if my parents are any indication, it will. I’ve been sleeved and hatted for the past 2 years since my mom had to have 11 spots removed and my dad had several on his head. Now, SPF is my middle name. š
Plastic, eh? I find that hard to believe, PK, because you look so good now! Yes, good SPF is our friend–that’s for sure. I find it humorous that we have to use SPF, but the doctor told me to also get 15 minutes of sun on my face, chest and arms to soak up Vitamin D. Okay, I get that, but often after 15 minutes, I’m so dirty from yard work, who wants to put on SPF? So, if anyone knows of a good spray on brand, let me know.
OUCH! I got fried a few good times when I was young, and they say most of your damage was done prior to the age of 18. They also didn’t start stressing how important sunblock was until the mid 90’s….after I had fried through my childhood! BTW, I had a dream about a hat last night!!!!
You are right about that, Dawn. I know that you see the dermatologist often enough to not worry—just make sure he/she is checking your scalp. I never had one do that until I asked this doctor to specifically look at this spot. Ha on the dream and BTW, I love this haircut. Love it, love it! Who knew life could be this simple?
I hear ya sistah! I am SO glad that you are healing so well! I was a competitive swimmer in my youth…who knew of SPF???? So I am also paying the price with brown spots on my legs…kind of everywhere now. I had to have MOHS for melanoma incitis on my shoulder…sun damage. So it’s a hat AND sleeves for me! I wish you a Speedy recovery!!!!!
I dislike that Melanoma word even more than the Basal word. Glad that you caught it in time and got it healed. I am always a hat and sleeves at the beach. I look like everyone’s crazy aunt (quiet, niece) the way I’m attired. But if it cuts (ha pun) down on trips to the dermatologist, I’m good with that! Jacquie…more about the competitive swimming, please. Do you have a blog about it that I need to search out.
What a nasty hole! Glad it is healing well and that you have a great doctor! Even with my dark, thick hair I guess I will start wearing a hat!
Oh yeah, I don’t think any of us should be without a hat. One friend said she always wears a visor…never thought about the exposure to the top of her head when she was protecting her face.
I, too wore a visor thinking I was protecting my face. last week had a BCC about the size of a ping pong ball removed from the top of my head! My “spot” didn’t even look like a cancer.. looked like a very small pink freckle! per the surgeon, it was only the tip of the iceberg! please wear sunscreen and a hat on your head!
Those tiny little spots are just like icebergs! I hope that you heal well and fast from the Mohs surgery–and that you get a couple of fun new hats!